I was thinking about why people put flowers on the gravestones of their loved ones. I mean, the dead don't really care what the hell you do to their gravestone, you could piss on it and they wouldn't complain. What I'm saying is that the 'flower placing process' isn't really for the deceised person as much as it is for the person putting them there. One reason they might do this is obviously for mourning purposes, but I can't help thinking that a big part of it is because: putting flowers on another's grave is in a way, putting flowers on your own.